Alternatives to Divorce in Oregon
If you're thinking about ending your marriage, you may be wondering if a divorce is right for you or whether you have other options.
In Oregon, there are three alternatives to divorce. Understanding these options can help you choose the right path forward.
Option 1: Informal separation
An informal separation means you and your spouse decide to live apart for a bit to see if you want to stay married or get a divorce. You don't have to fill out any forms or go to court for this. Informal separation is a good choice if you're unsure you want a divorce.
Option 2: Legal separation
A legal separation is similar to a divorce. It's just as complicated, takes as long, and requires as much paperwork.
A legal separation is a good option for couples who know their marriage is over but don't believe in getting a divorce for religious, cultural, or other reasons.
A legal separation may also be a good option for married couples who need time apart and a legal document that spells out what will happen to their kids, property, and debts during that time.
Option 3: Annulment
Getting an annulment is like canceling your marriage. It's like your marriage never happened.
Annulments are uncommon in Oregon and difficult to get. You can't get one just because you haven't been married for a long time.
You can only get an annulment if you:
- Were tricked into marriage (for example, maybe your spouse lied to you about their identity),
- Got married as a minor (under age 18)
- Got married when you couldn't consent to the marriage (for example, maybe you were drunk or mentally impaired in another way),
- Married someone while you were still legally married to another person,
- Married someone who was already legally married to someone else, or
- Married your first cousin (including adopted or half-blood cousins).
If you qualify for an annulment, you must hire a family law attorney. There aren't any free court forms available to help with this process.
Caution: Some churches offer to annul marriages. Even if you go through a process with your church, you must go through the court's annulment or divorce process to legally end your marriage.
Summary
Deciding not to be with your partner anymore is tough, but knowing the options for ending your marriage can help. In Oregon, you have other options if you don't want to get a divorce or aren't ready for divorce.
You can take a break with an informal separation, live apart but still be legally married with a legal separation, or end your marriage like it never happened with an annulment.
If none of these options are right for you, visit this page to learn more about divorce in Oregon.