Informal Domestic Relations Trials in Oregon: A Simpler Option for Family Law Trials
If you and the other person in your custody or divorce case don’t agree on everything, you may need a trial. But a trial doesn’t have to feel overwhelming or out of reach.
Oregon offers a simpler option called an Informal Domestic Relations Trial (“IDRT” or “informal trial”). This process is designed to be easier, less expensive, and more approachable—especially if you don’t have a lawyer.
What is an Informal Domestic Relations Trial?
An Informal Domestic Relations Trial is a different way to resolve family law issues like custody, parenting time, divorce, or child support.
Instead of focusing on complicated courtroom rules, the process centers on you. You and the other party take turns speaking directly to the judge in your own words.
Here’s what makes it different:
- You don’t need to know courtroom procedures.
- There are no formal objections or cross-examinations.
- You can share your story in a straightforward, respectful way.
- The judge may ask questions to better understand your situation.
At the end, the judge makes the decision—just like in a regular trial—but the process is designed to be simpler and less stressful.
Benefits of an informal trial
Many people find informal trials a better fit for their family because they are:
- Affordable. You can handle the trial yourself or get limited help from a lawyer, saving money on legal fees.
- Simpler. You don’t need to bring in witnesses or learn courtroom rules.
- Flexible. You can use letters or other documents instead of asking people to appear in court.
- Empowering. You speak directly to the judge about what matters most to you, without being interrupted by objections.
For many Oregonians, this process makes court more accessible and less intimidating.
What cases qualify?
You can request an informal trial in cases involving:
- Divorce
- Legal separation
- Annulment of a marriage
- Child support
- Child custody and parenting time
How to ask for an informal trial
If you’d like to use this option, here are the steps:
- Talk to the other side. Both of you must agree to use an informal trial.
- Tell the court. Talk to the court clerks at your local circuit court and tell them you've agreed on an informal trial. Ask them what to do next—each county has a different process for handling informal trials.
- Turn in the form. Complete the court’s Domestic Relations Trial Process Selection form and file it.
More Frequently Asked Questions
You can bring expert witnesses with you to an informal trial. Experts are professionals like therapists or doctors who have important information about your case.
Non-professional witnesses (like friends or family) usually can't testify. However, you can have them write letters to the judge if you think it's helpful.
Yes. Many people use a lawyer for support, even in an informal trial. A lawyer can:
- Help you organize your thoughts and evidence before court.
- Sit with you in the courtroom.
- Make legal arguments for you if needed.
- Keep you focused and confident during the trial.
You can search the Legal Directory on this site for free and low-cost legal help. You may also want to read the Guide to Hiring a Lawyer in Oregon for tips on finding the right lawyer for your case.
If the other person doesn’t agree to an informal trial, your case will move forward as a formal trial. You may still represent yourself, but you’ll have to follow court rules.
For help preparing for a formal trial, check out The Oregon Judicial Department Guide to Divorce and Custody Trials in Oregon. It includes helpful advice, checklists, and tips for preparing for informal and formal trials.
Think about what evidence helps tell your story. Useful documents may include:
- Text messages or emails
- Pay stubs or proof of income
- Your proposed parenting plan
- School or daycare records
- Medical or mental health records
- Letters from people who know your situation
Example: If you’re asking for child support, bring information that shows both parents’ income and your health insurance costs.
Tip: For more help, check out The Oregon Judicial Department Guide to Divorce and Custody Trials in Oregon. It includes helpful advice, checklists, and tips for preparing for informal and formal trials.